A Scavenger Hunt for Women Over 60

Because half of us still don’t know how we like our eggs

There’s a scene in Runaway Bride—you know, the Julia Roberts movie—where her character finally admits something raw and true.

She doesn’t know how she likes her eggs.

Not because she’s picky. But because every time she’s been with a man, she simply ate them his way. Scrambled if he liked scrambled. Poached if he liked poached. Always adjusting. Always accommodating. Never checking in with her own preferences.

Sound familiar?

I don’t care if it’s eggs, music, or the damn thermostat—most women over 60 gave up something to keep the peace.
A little piece here. A little opinion there. Year after year, moment after moment, until we stopped noticing the disappearing act.

And now?
We’ve got women walking around who can’t tell you what they want for dinner, let alone what they want from life - at this stage of life!

Which is why I’m saying this loud and clear:
Women over 60 don’t need another makeover.
We need a treasure hunt.

Not for a man. Not for a hobby. Not for a damn anti-aging serum.

We need to go hunting for the pieces of ourselves we buried in the name of being agreeable.

• That old book you loved before he said it was “too depressing”?

• That city you wanted to visit before life got “too busy”?

• That wild-colored lipstick you bought but never wore because he said it looked “loud”?

Start there.

Your preferences aren’t petty. They are portals.

Every tiny thing you rediscover about yourself—whether it’s how you like your eggs or the kind of music that makes you feel like a goddess—is a breadcrumb back to your soul.

So let this be your permission slip:
🔥 Go on a treasure hunt.
🥚 Try every kind of egg.
💋 Wear the lipstick.
🎶 Play the music loud.
🏝 Book the solo trip.

Because the only thing worse than losing yourself… is never going looking for the girl you used to be.

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Somewhere along the way, I became the woman with a toolbox of instruction manuals. Not for toasters or air fryers—God help us—but for life.

For soul restoration. For emotional reentry.For reclaiming the dreams you quietly laid at someone else’s feet.

I made these manuals because I lived the breakdowns they speak to.

Years of therapy, journaling, spiritual acrobatics and a whole lot of staring out windows asking, “Is this all there is?”

These instruction manuals aren’t abstract. They aren’t self-help fluff.
They are clean, clear, implementable instructions designed to help you skip the twenty years of anguish and go straight to the reclamation part.

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Real-Life Applications (A Few Soul Wins)

💡 “I once sat down with the prompt ‘What am I still tolerating?’ and realized I hadn’t rearranged my bedroom in 14 years because I didn’t think I deserved cozy.”

💡 “A reader emailed me and said one checklist made her finally call her sister after ten years. She said she’d been ‘waiting to feel ready.’ The checklist helped her stop waiting.”

💡 “One woman wrote that after reading Five Things to Never Do, she realized she was still asking for permission to want anything. That stopped that day.”

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The truth is, most of us don’t sit down with a manual until something breaks.

But what if you didn’t wait for the ache?

What if you sat down with one of these today—not because you’re broken, but because you’re ready to experience something better?

Your time is sacred. So when you choose to spend it opening one of these manuals, you’re not “fixing” yourself.

You’re saying:

“I am worthy of ease. I am worthy of support. I am worthy of not figuring this out alone.”

If you’re ready, a beautiful place to begin your own discovery is with:
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💛 The Soul-Led Scavenger Hunt
A simple manual with practical excersises that will help you re-align with yourself.