I Don't Leave Myself Anymore—Not Even at Breakfast
Don't want breakfast today, but I'll go. It will be ok becaue my primary relationship is with my soul now—she steadies me through small talk.
Why Am I Going If I Don’t Want to Go?
I’ve got breakfast this morning. Greg and amutual friend. She’s tried to get us all together three times already. This is round four.
And here I am, getting ready to go.
But I’m asking myself something I can’t ignore:
Why am I going if I don’t want to go?
Not because I’m antisocial. Not because I’m bitter. Not because I’m above it.
I just… don’t want to go.
And for once in my life, I don’t feel like pretending otherwise.
That’s new.
This year, something shifted because I built a relationship with my soul that feels more intimate than anything else in my life. I found it through breath—slow, steady, daily breath. The kind that pulls you back into yourself when everything else wants you to perform.
And that relationship? It makes small talk hard. It makes performative socializing feel heavy. It makes me feel how quickly I can disappear when I override what I know is true.
I don’t want to go back to the version of me who would twist herself to keep other people comfortable.
But I’m still going.
Because I’m also a woman who knows how to choose kindness. Because I do care. Because I said yes.
So here’s what I’m practicing today:
How to be true to myself while doing something I’d rather not do.
How to stay soft without shape-shifting.
How to stay in my body without bracing.
And when I feel myself slipping?
I’ll do what I always do now: Breathe.
Four in. Four hold. Six out.
That’s what I talked about in my most recent live. Not breath as a life hack. Breath as a tether. Breath as a way to stay honest even in rooms where I once disappeared.
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This is what we practice here.
Sovereignty in motion. Kindness with boundaries. Breath that brings you back.
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