The Book I Was Never Supposed to Write
Because I asked questions
Accepting anything at face value has never been my strength. I just not good at that.
Of course raised as I was, I was supposed to. Repeatedly I was told don’t ask too many questions, don’t poke too hard, and don't think too much. But I always did. Naturally I had to be the exception to the family rule. Well basically the good southern girl rule.
And that’s how I ended up here.
A little gal from the bayous of Southern Louisiana. Married off to a preacher nine years her senior because her family thought she wasn’t too bright. Seventeen years, three divorce attempts, and one full disownment later, I landed in NYC, married a concert pianist, and finally started the real search.
For truth. For who I was beneath all the roles I had been assigned. For the actual, uncensored, unfiltered version of myself.
It turns out, I’m a woman who never stops asking questions. I should have been a lawyer. Instead, I became an artist, a writer, and a woman who has turned questioning into a way of life.
And now? I’m writing THE book I was never supposed to write.
Not another ex-preacher’s-wife sob story. Not another "here’s how I deconstructed my life" tale, wrapped up neatly with a bow of self-help jargon. No, thank you.
This book is something different.
It’s for the ones who feel like they’re in the cosmic waiting room, wondering what the hell is next.
It’s for the ones who feel like they’ve outgrown the roles they were handed and are trying to figure out what comes next.
It’s for the ones who know they were made for more but aren’t quite sure how to step into it yet.
It’s a book of mic-drop analogies, cosmic pep talks, and irreverent wisdom. It’s about what happens when you refuse to accept life as it is and start asking better damn questions.
The Universe is always listening. I think it’s time to test the mic.
But for now… tell me this: What’s the one question you’ve been afraid to ask?
Oh, and to celebrate this new chapter, I’m giving a free art print “ Lavender Fields” to every paid subscriber between now and March 31. Consider it a thank-you for being part of this wild, beautiful journey.”
