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Becky E.'s avatar

I do enjoy a bourbon and Coke with my husband occasionally. Unfortunately, I don't get the beautiful glow you get, I just get totally unconscious within minutes of finishing it. Unfortunately, alcohol + the meds I take = instant coma. The good thing is, I have no after effects the next day since I can't stay awake to drink more than one.

Monica Hebert's avatar

That’s honestly kind of impressive—your body said, “One and done, thank you very much!” 😂

Glad you still get to enjoy a little sip with your husband now and then, even if it comes with a built-in off switch! Honestly, no hangover and enforced moderation? That’s kind of the dream.

Kim's avatar

This summarizes my relationship with alcohol. I occasionally indulge. Usually when home alone, well hydrated, after a full meal no plans next few days. Half a glass north coast brewery ole Rasputin beer, Pacific Northwest wine, or traditional sake. That’s a few years worth of alcohol for me. For some reason when I visit friends and have wine socially the effect is reduced. During pandemic I discovered local crafted botanical gin, a few sips occasionally was nice. My immune system does not tolerate much alcohol. So yes a bit of that independent rebel even if a little numbed afterward.

Katie Ford's avatar

This made me laugh, Monica! Thank you for being real!

Monica Hebert's avatar

Sometimes a little bourbon and brutal honesty is all a girl’s got!

Thanks for laughing with me. real is the only way I know how to roll.

Elizabeth Sorek's avatar

I'm experimenting with 8 oz. of crushed ice, with a small shot of spirits, gin or aquavit, and slowly sipping that. That feels like a drink, a little buzz, mostly ok in the morning. WE make our way🌅

Monica Hebert's avatar

That’s the perfect kind of grown woman alchemy—just the right blend of ritual, rebellion, and “I do what feels good for me.” 👏

Yes ma’am, we do make our way—one well-iced, soul-honoring sip at a time. 🥂 Keep going. You’re in excellent company.

Judy's avatar

The smoldering embers after the fire still provide warmth and light. Loved your story.

Olive P. Wood's avatar

You go, girl!!

Kim Amthor's avatar

Good for you! Nothing like a quality bourbon buzz in good company a couple times a year. No regrets.

Monica Hebert's avatar

Amen! zero regrets! Just a nice lovey day of napping!