MONIROSE SOUL

MONIROSE SOUL

Who the Hell Is That Woman in the Mirror

(and What Are You Going to Do About Her?)

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Monica Hebert
Oct 20, 2025
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You ever catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and think, Who the hell is that woman?

Because I did.

And then I realized — she’s the one I’ve been ignoring while I took care of everybody else.
She’s the one who waited quietly while I handled the next emergency, the next expectation, the next “important thing.”

Somewhere along the line, I mistook responsibility for identity.


I became the version of me that was easiest for everyone else to digest — polite, dependable, and invisible.

And then one morning, I caught my own reflection and saw a stranger.
Not broken. Not lost. Just… neglected.

That’s when I knew something had to change.

This 30-Day Reclamation isn’t about “fixing” that woman in the mirror. It’s about meeting her again — without the filters, the roles, or the performance.

The truth is, she’s still in there — the bold one, the curious one, the mischievous, laughing, alive one. But she won’t come back for obligation. She comes back for honesty.

✨ The full 30-Day Reclamation journey is waiting inside for paid subscribers — I’d love for you to be part of it.

Join us now — it’s $10 for the month.
(Seriously, when was the last time your Starbucks gave you this kind of return?)

👉 Become a paid subscriber to read the full post and begin YOUR Reclamation.

Thirty days. Seven days a week. One shift after another.

Because the truth is — a latte gives you caffeine.
This work gives you your life back.

👉 Become a paid subscriber to join The Reclamation

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