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April Mensinger's avatar

Grief and healing have a rhythm...

Monica Hebert's avatar

Grief and healing have a rhythm—and that rhythm is another way of looking at drifting.

We move in and out, closer and farther from ourselves.

That’s why I offered these gentle steps.

Not to “fix” anything—but to help you recognize the beat you're in,

and choose to return when you're ready.

Because drifting isn’t failure. It’s part of the dance.

Kathy Clarke's avatar

Spiraling can also be a good thing,like a dance. Spiraling inward and outward at the same time in the torus field that connects us. Yin and yang.

Monica Hebert's avatar

Ohhh yes—what a beautiful reframe.

Not all spiraling is collapse—some of it is creation.

That inward pull? It’s sacred. That outward expansion? It’s powerful.

The torus field, the dance, the rhythm of becoming… it’s all part of how we stay connected—to ourselves and to something greater.

Thank you for bringing wisdom to what so often gets mislabeled as “lost.”

This kind of spiral? It leads us home.

Canadian Cassandra✨💗🇨🇦's avatar

Love this so much! 🙌🥰🐦‍🔥🇨🇦

April Mensinger's avatar

Yes...drifting...like floating silently between strokes.... I went through my first sober break up last year.... I'm enjoying the clarity and the gentleness of growth....