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Retirement Didn't Match the Marketing
That isn’t discipline. It’s self-terrorism.
When the past becomes useful in a completely different way
Preparing for our later years should not begin with assuming decline.
I Flipped the Script on Growing Old
They listed the house for sale
The unexpected gift of losing everything
Two Weeks Before My Wedding, I Told My Father NO
Lost Six Oak Trees and the Last Excuse I Had
She Doesn't Remember Her Dreams. And That Made Me Furious.
I’m 70. Why Am I Still Wrestling With a Fitted Sheet?
Before the 20% annual discount disappears tomorrow
The Women Who Are So Easy to Be Around
Who Is the Judge, Who Is the Jury, in a Courtroom of Your Own Making?
Do People Actually Live Like That?
Please don’t wait 40 years like I did.
Nobody Asks a Painter What Brush She Used
I found my dreams when I remembered Captain Kangaroo.
Guilty. I used AI. And ( gasp)electricity.
Fatigue Told Me I Didn't Love This Anymore. It Lied
Why Retirement Can Make You More Afraid of Other People’s Opinions
Why do I feel guilty for napping?
Invoke a feeling of awe and wonder
Someone tried to sell me soap for smelling like an old woman.
Is Everyone Burned Out... Are We Asking the Wrong Question?
My Daughters Started Retiring Me Before I Was Ready
It Was Theft, Plain and Simple. (My Voice. Six Days. Two Thieves.)
Women over 60: It’s time to choose you.
Nobody taught us how to be free
The Memory Is Still Packed in a Chest Somewhere
I used to run every decision past three other people first. I don't anymore.
How I Learned to Stop Outsourcing My Life
The Night I Stopped Taking Everyone’s Advice
This Week, Over and Over, I Came Face to Face with Women Who Outgrew Their Own Lives
The Woman Who Cuts Up Wedding Dresses
Navigating the Void in Retirement
Something has been bothering me and I finally figured out what it is
Doing was how she proved she belonged. Doing was how she stayed safe.
She stopped wanting the things she used to want.
Retire Yourself from Obligation
The collapse of borrowed meaning
Whose voice is that — yours or theirs?
Within moments, eagerness moved through me
We're not a category. We're people.
Is Isolation Really Devastating for Older People?
I thought satisfaction was the goal. I was wrong.
"They" weren't paying attention. Why should I?
Fascination with your own life!
I am retired and stil fascinated with Barbara Walters
Breadcrumbs, maps and your future
The map your life has been leaving for you
She said she didn't know how to come home
Maybe the problem isn't Substack
The First Step towards creating a future at this stage of life
I refuse to accept the idea that future belongs exclusively to the young.
Suddenly I was ten years old again.
Fourteen time zones, one pink bathrobe, and a week I didn't expect
Retirement changes more than your schedule
ANNOUNCEMENT: 'RE-wire with Monica & Mike'
The measuring stick we never put down
Apparently we were all tired of being self-improvement projects
The day I realized invisibility wasn't happening to me. It was happening inside me.
Maybe Invisibility Has Nothing To Do With Aging
Relief. Not excitement. Precious Relief.
The woman at the glass doors wasn't watching the world go by.
The only place women talked like this was my mother's kitchen table.
What I Learned in 7 Days About Fear
When and why did we that going to girls lunch was the measure of a life well lived.
Pooyay. (And what my Cajun grandmother taught me about refusing to disappear.)
Some of us are sitting here at 60, 70, 75 + years old realizing: we are not done yet.
He built half this town with his hands. Retirement killed him in five years.
We don’t want to conform to uncertainty
I was very good at disappearing inside systems that needed me to stay lost.
She taught herself bookkeeping. Then she built an empire. Then she did leg lifts at the snack bar.
What seventy taught me that thirty never could
I fell to the floor. Then my girls walked in.
The sky looked like God was angry.
70 years of fake guilt. It was never guilt.
The energy you spend maintaining the past isn't lost. It's just unavailable.
What Are You Supposed to Be Doing Right Now?
The nag. The voice that won't quit.
It doesn't kick down the door. It walks in wearing sensible shoes, carrying a casserole
Probability said I was supposed to fade.
Woke up. Two hours of nothing with coffee.
She had a sewing room for forty years. Never made a thing for herself.
My brain said "hold my coffee, I got you." Here's what it did next.
600 self-help books. A house fire. Dinner with Gorbachev. Here's what finally worked.
I stood in my destroyed front yard and felt something I wasn't expecting. Recognition.
Three marriages. Two cities. One dream I kept misplacing.
We were taught to be good girls.
What did you leap toward at nine before anyone told you to sit back down?
Oh My God. I'm Becoming My Mother.
Do you feel out of step with everyone around you right now?
Lived for years under a quiet assumption I never said out loud.
Substack bestseller list. Then vertigo. Then the ceiling.
I found my husband in bed with another woman. Here's what I did next
Something in my foundation bottle had separated. That felt significant
Where did she go? The one who used to want things.
Before she learned to want the right things
They Laughed at My Cardboard. Then They Called My Name.
Everything I Owned Was "Just in Case." Just in Case of What?
At almost 90 my father never stopped bumping into life.
Women Over 60: We Were Duped About Where Our Value Lives
This one is for every woman who's been trying to make "right now" look like "back then".
Eleven words. Thirty-two years. And then she booked a flight.
There are three people in my house and none of them pay rent.
It started with something simple I didn’t want to wear.
He's charming. He's smart. He's the reason you override your own knowing.
Women over 60: We Were All Duped
She's Not Coming Back. And I'm Done Waiting for Her.
You Never Agreed to Become Fragile
Your Clarity Isn't Gone. Your Body Just Won't Let It Through.
Everyone Needs You… So You Never Get to Yourself
Everyone Seems to Know What You Should Do With Your Life
I Am Not a Tragedy in Progress
What does personal power, lunchmeat and art have in common?
Women over 60 think we got it all covered, until
I dropped my pen and learned something cool.
Yesterday my patio turned into a wildlife documentary.
What Comes First—The Decision or the Feeling?
I Made a Discovery This Week About Why My Soul Connection Went Dim
I Stopped Running Back Into My Old Life. The Result? Delicious.
How I Learned the Difference Between Survival Mode and Soul Mode
She Wrote My Words on a Sticky Note. Then the Ice Storm Hit.
You're Not Dramatic. You're Braced.
Everything and Nothing Changed
RECLAIMING MY LIFE WITHIN A STAGE 4 CANCER DIAGNOSIS
You did not ask for this promotion
My mother taught me to make things look good.
For the Woman Who Has Been Carrying It Alone for Years
Two Words That Changed My Whole Day
Time doesn't close the door to our dreams
The Women Who Did It — Meet Susan
Are You Living or Just Enduring? (There's a Difference)
My Do List Thinks It’s My Manager
The Realization Came After My Purpose Flew the Coop
I Thought I Was Done Discovering New Dreams. Then I Started Kneading Dough.
All this work I do helping women reclaim their dreams?
Spiritual people don’t get angry. That’s low vibe energy. So they say.
Workshop Moved to Thursday. Blame the Jester Hat.
It found me, I did not hunt for it
I Can't Return to My Old Self. The Building Was Rebuilt
I Broke My Own Momentum on Purpose
Spring Cleaning for the Soul, Part Three:
Spring Cleaning the Soul, Part Two:
Spring Cleaning the Soul, Part One:
Sometimes You Need to Paint the Damn Sunflower Blue
For 30 years I tried to earn my way into peace.
730 days of stalling, 30 minutes to reclaim myself.
When I Couldn’t Paint, I Swept
I learned to stop managing my life.
A quick, soulful message from me to you
This morning I said out loud, I love my life.
Ya'll had me on the floor crying in a puddle.
When you feel like you're unraveling (you're not)
THE PATH TO PEACE HAS A DOOR MARKED “EXIT”
For as long as I can remember, I've been a responsible, practical woman.
Downton Abby and the tears surpised me
Is It Too Late to Reclaim a Dream ?
She Said, 'Go Find Something to Do'
Does This Vape Make Me Less Spiritual?
BREAKTHROUGH : The Painting That Changed Everything
The Shopping Bag I Clutched in the Rehearsal Studio
Everything Else Feels Like Noise
I Painted My Fear. Then I Learned to Breathe Through It.
What If “Good Enough” Is the Thing Keeping You Stuck?
Attention, choice and innterruptions
Just Monica Was More Than Enough
Passion Doesn't Strike. It Rises.
This is the most important gift I can give you right now.
When You’re Stuck in Neutral and Your Soul Wants Drive
Unapologetic. Unfiltered. Unshakable.
I've Been in My Pajamas for Four Days. A Year Ago, That Would Have Terrified Me.
My Body Wants to Cocoon. My Mind Wants to Scream.
I wasn't Resting. I was in retreat.
Something a little different today
It Was Just a Fork — Until It Wasn't
I Read 20 Years of Journals and Found the Same Sentence on Every Page
A Heater, a Hunch, and a Homecoming
The Hallway Pile Wasn't the Point